Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Our children are the best observers

السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته
Barakallahulakum.


CHILDREN LEARN WHAT THEY LIVE
If a child lives with criticism,
he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility,
he learns to fight.
If a child lives with fear,
he learns to be apprehensive.
If a child lives with pity,
he learns to feel sorry for himself.
If a child lives with ridicule,
he learns to be shy.
If a child lives with jealousy,
he learns what envy is.
If a child lives with shame,
he learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with encouragement,
he learns to be confident.
If a child lives with tolerance,
he learns to be patient.
If a child lives with praise,
he learns to be appreciative.
If a child lives with acceptance,
he learns to love.
If a child lives with approval,
he learns to like himself.
If a child lives with recognition,
he learns that it is good to have a goal.
If a child lives with sharing,
he learns about generosity.
If a child lives with honesty and fairness,
he learns what truth and justice are.
If a child lives with security,
he learns to have faith in himself and in those about him.
If a child lives with friendliness,
he learns that the world is a nice place in which to live to love and be loved.
If you live with serenity,
your child will live with peace of mind.
With what is your child living?

by--->Dorothy Law Nolte(author of famous parenting poem- i love it)






We as parents should have known that environmental causes children's learning and thinking. For me, our children nowadays are very smart in their thinking and behavior. So, pesan ummi untuk diri sendiri supaya menjadikan diri kita Role Model untuk anak-anak. U must change yourself before u change the world..right? 
Kanak-kanak amat peka apa yang berlaku di persekitaran,pengamatannya lebih baik dari individu dewasa,jangan terkejut andai dia adalah pemerhati terbaik sikap,watak dan perlakuan anda,jadi tunjukkan contoh kehidupan Muslim sejati andai mahu anak menghayati keindahan hidup di jalan taqwa. InsyaALLAH.. (Ummi pun risau..berjayakah ummi mendidik dan membesarkan anak ummi sebaik mungkin??yakni, bukan duniawi semata-mata tapi akhirat itu yang utama..Mereka adalah amanah dari ALLAH..amanah ALLAH perlu dijaga dengan baik..Barakallah Ya ALLAH..)

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